Dear Andrew,
My husband had a 6 month affair which ended April last year. We made the decision to stay together and try to work things out. We have read many books and this has really helped. When he ended it, he was heartbroken, it was very difficult to stay with someone who was obviously in [...]
If you’ve read my books and would like the chance to work through the ideas with me and a group of like minded people, you may be interested in my workshops for 2010.
How to Find Love
I keep the numbers down on all my workshops, so that the atmosphere is supportive and intimate, so everybody feels [...]
There are eight different types of affair and knowing which your partner had is vital for coping with adultery.
I run through all eight in a new video on You Tube. Just put my name ‘Andrew G Marshall’ or ‘Eight Types of Affair’ into their search engine. Of course, there is more in my new book [...]
Thank you to everyone who has supportive comments after I took part in a debate on BBC Radio 4 today (6th January 2010) with Yasmina Alibhai-Brown. Here is a selection:
You were drowned out and not given the opportunity to put across what is such an important point that recovery from affairs is possible and couples [...]
When you are caught up in the middle of affair, it is very difficult to know whether you are experiencing true love or something else - pumped up by all the secrecy. But instead of taking my word for it…… here´s some thoughts from someone ho has been there and read my first book : [...]
New Year is the busiest time of the year for two polar opposite organisations. Lawyers have their annual rush of clients who put their divorce proceedings on hold before Christmas - hoping for the best - but decide to press ahead after all. Meanwhile Relate, the UK’s largest counselling charity, reports peak demand for their [...]
Christmas should be the most romantic time of the year. With present giving, parties and time off together, there are endless opportunities to be loving but all too often couples find themselves rowing rather than kissing under the mistletoe. Sadly, the mix of booze, relatives and overheated houses turns even the happiest couple into grumps. [...]
If you think it is impossible to trust your partner after discovering that he or she has been unfaithful, there is now a video on You Tube where I explain more about my new programme, how it works and how you can use it to turn round your relationship. There is a link from the [...]
The Guardian are bringing out another series of free booklets about relationships and once again, I have written an article about why its so hard to find love these days - which offers plenty of advice on how to beat the odds. Plus you will discover what it is like to have a session with [...]
My latest workshop: ‘How to love yourself enough’ which looked at building self- esteem and quietening the destructive internal voice was a great success.
Here is some of the feedback:
Absolutely brilliant day - I would recommend this workshop to all and I wouldn’t hesitate going on future courses
I was particularly struck with the caring and supportive [...]
Andrew G. Marshall is a marital therapist with twenty five years’ experience.
He works for RELATE the UK’s leading couple-counselling charity, and writes on relationships for the Times, Mail on Sunday and Psychologies.
His books have been translated into fifteen different languages.