Single Trap – What does it involve?
If you’ve been reading about my new book ‘The Single Trap: The two step guide to escaping it and finding love’ and what to know to more about finding the right person for you, here’s a breakdown of what to expect in my book.
Basically, I’ve divided it into three parts. Firstly, I look at why there are so many single people (so you don’t blame yourself or let anybody put you down). Next, I help you understand yourself your past and any habits that might be holding you back. Finally, there’s advice on how to search with an open heart and make the sort of connections that lead to lasting love – rather than a momentary distraction.
Here is the chapter breakdown ……
The Single Epidemic
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Why are there so many single people?
The changes in our society that are making it harder to find lasting love are explored, with advice to mitigate the effects and increase your chances.
Step One – Escaping the Single Trap
2. The advantages of working on yourself before looking for love
How your first relationship with your mother and father can influence all your subsequent close relationships. If your parents have divorced, there is help unpicking the legacy and learning to trust again. This chapter also covers the art of forgiveness.
3. Long time single.
The positive mind frames of people who are successful in love and how you can acquire them too. In addition: could the strategies that help you cope with being single actually be stopping you finding love?
4. Recovering from previous relationships.
What helps and what hinders the ending an important relationship? This chapter has practical tips about moving on and advice on boosting your self-confidence.
5. Getting ready for love.
Understanding your personal search for love and help with drawing up your personal action plan. In addition, this chapter challenges the myths about love and explains how they can make your search more difficult.
Step Two – Finding Lasting Love
6. Take a fresh look at dating
The different ways people have found partners over the last hundred years and what we can learn to make our search easier today. This chapter also looks at how current dating practices are making us blind to true love.
7. The art of mixing.
The new and less dysfunctional way to meet the right people and how the basis for a good relationship is laid down at the very beginning
8. The rhythm of relationships
How to proceed from ‘just seeing’ each other, to becoming a couple, onto moving in together, marriage or a long-term commitment. By understanding the natural cycle of relationships, you can avoid the pitfalls of pushing ahead too quickly or holding back for too long.
