Instead of splitting should you be thinking of trying something new?

June 24th, 2009

Has the situation between you and your partner reached the point that you dread going home and separating seems the only answer. Don’t despair, there could be another solution as this review - posted on amazon -  for ‘ I love you but I’m not in love with you’ shows:


“It occurred to me that rather than reading books about how to break up ’successfully’ (whatever that means!), perhaps I should buy a book reflecting the situation hubby and me found ourselves in. Rings off, house for sale - such a labryinth of unhappiness, just awful. This book is a breath of fresh air and like nothing I have read before - it definitely told me lots of new stuff. It was like it was written for us - reflecting what we were going through and most importantly helped me to understand some of the reasons why we had got there and how to CHANGE those reasons I could and ACCEPT those reasons I couldn’t. This book made an immediate impact and just 2 months later we celebrated our 12th wedding anniversary by putting our rings back on. One of the ‘best buys’ of my life.”


Thanks for the great review and the feed back. Next time I get stuck writing my next book, I will picture you celebrating your 12th anniversary and press on.

Andrew G. Marshall is a marital therapist with twenty five years’ experience.

He works for RELATE the UK’s leading couple-counselling charity, and writes on relationships for the Times, Mail on Sunday and Psychologies.

His books have been translated into fifteen different languages.