Ask Andrew – Positive Feedback
As you receive so many cries for help I thought I’d break the mould and let you know how helpful your advice and books were to my (now) husband and me.
I was in despair three years ago when I felt the light had gone out of our relationship and there was no way back. Your advice helped me to re-evaluate my relationship with him, but also my relationships with people in general and my relationship with myself of course.
I found you after I searched for ‘I love you but I’m not in love with you’ (without any knowledge of the book) in Google, hoping beyond hope that the internet would provide some answer to what I was going through – and hey presto! It did.
I still have my own issues, and would love to go to your next workshop though, alas, cannot. I think it would help me greatly. My husband and I are now very contented in our relationship… it’s not perfect, but that’s what makes it after all – the grit in the Oyster and all that. So, quite simply, thank you.. for putting me on the right track and showing me that the spark can be reignited with effort and willing on both sides.
It’s really nice to get positive feedback and I’ve decided to post this letter as I think it will give hope to other people. As I always say, it is possible to turn round your relationship and more importantly still to fall back in love again.