Are You Right For Me?
Bloomsbury Publishing, February 2011 Buy
In the movies, a couple meet and they just know they have found that one special person. Unfortunately in the real world, it is much harder to work-out if a new relationship has a future or not. Maybe you’ve been dating for a while but are not certain whether to take things to the next level. Alternatively, you and your partner have been together a number of years but your relationship has hit a brick wall and you’re beginning to question everything. Whatever the reason for your confusion, there is advice to help you understand, take stock and move on with confidence.
In this practical book, with lots of simple and straight-forward exercises, I explain:
- How to tell if someone is truly into you.
– The natural rhythm of relationships and how both jumping in too soon or spending too
long on hold can ruin a budding romance.
– The seven questions to test whether you want to spend the rest of your life with this
person.
– Whether your long-term relationship is just tired or actually terminal.
How to talk productively about your future.
Who will find this book helpful?
Someone who has just started a new relationship, someone who has been dating for a while and wonders if the relationship has a future, someone considering going back to an ex or has an ex hovering in the background as a ‘safety-net’. Alternatively, the book will help someone in a long-term relationship who is seriously considering whether they should stay or go.
Full disclosure
I have used some of the exercises and case histories from ‘The Single Trap’ and presented them in a new light in this book.
“It is important to take-off the rose-coloured glasses because although you can fix what is broken, you can’t fix what was never right.” Andrew G Marshall
