Ask Andrew - questions about "Adultery"
Please can you help me? I have recently discovered ( a month ago) my husband had a 2 month affair with a work colleague. To say I was devastated is putting it mildly. However, I have decided to forgive him, … Continue reading
Long term married couple, two children. Husband confessed an affair 3 years ago (he had finished it but was suffering withdrawal), which embarked us on a lengthy road of healing, recovery, examination, during which process of radical honesty he disclosed … Continue reading
MY HUSBAND OF 35YEARS, LAST THREE WAS HAVING A RELATIONSHIP WITH A WOMAN NOT MUCH YOUNGER THAN I. AT THE TIME ALL THAT STARTED I WAS BEING TREATED FOR BREAST CANCER. NEW YEARS EVE 2012 HE PHONED FROM HIS MOTHERS … Continue reading
Last february i discovered my husband was having an inappropriate friendship, later followed by his ILYB. This followed a stressful incident in the wider family. We stayed together and tried again with positive results, his thoughts as well as mine. … Continue reading
I have been gripped by your book Heal and Move On and wish I had read some of your others before leaving my husband of 28 years whilst in the state of what I now know as limerence. The limerence … Continue reading
We have been married for 35 years. 15 years ago while we were abroad my husband had an affair with his secretary. I left him, his secretary quit her job and I went back to him. At the time he … Continue reading
A week before Christmas, I found out my husband of 25 years had been having a 3 month affair with a work colleague. I discovered his infidelity after hearing a message on my home answer phone – a conversation he … Continue reading
I have been with my husband for 22 yrs, married for 17yrs. Things have been up and down in our marriage before but we have always worked them through. This time round Things have been more destructive (emotionally abusive) on … Continue reading
I’m actually not sure which book to read, but I watched the interviews you have posted in which you describe what each book relates to. I was especially struck by “How can I ever Trust you Again?” How shall I … Continue reading
We just got the ILYB book, and my spouse has agreed to read it together with me. We have been together for 7 years, married for just over 1, and the ILYB came out when I received a text message … Continue reading
