Dear Andrew,
My husband now thinks that we have reached a point of no return. He wants a separation . We have two children and my main focus has been keeping our family together under very stressful circumstances. My Husband has made efforts but he has also continued to undermine our relationship with dishonesty and suspicious [...]
Ask Andrew - questions about "Adultery"
Dear Andrew,
I’ve been married to my second husband for 13 years. This is his first marriage. Two years ago we relocated for his job (he’s a university lecturer), but shortly afterwards his hours were dramatically reduced. He became progressively more depressed, began drinking heavily (he’s always used drink as a solution to problems) and gradually [...]
Andrew please help me I’m just about driven mad, I guess you see this all the time but my husband had an affair which lasted about 6 months with a local girl in the town that the both of us work.
We are both psv drivers him a taxi and me a hackeney, we hadn’t been [...]
dear andrew
After reading your new book, I am not sure which way to go after I found my boyfriend of 7 years was cheating on me with another women from Germany. We are on a break but and she has now moved to england, I’ve tried the questions that are in your book but he [...]
Hi there
I have been with my husband for 10 years and married for five. We have 2 preschool children.
I found out (largely by chance) last october that he has been having an affair with a colleague 20 years younger than him. My husband is 40 and I wonder if is having a mid [...]
Dear Andrew,
Last year I found out by reading an email my husband of 32 years had been having an affair for over 4years. They met whilst he was travelling to start a job for a few weeks abroad, they met on a city tour bus when he says she came to sit with him, they [...]
Hello
I have Been Reading your book ‘how can I ever trust you again?’ over
the last few weeks. In wife had a brief affair in November. The
sexual excitement was a big factor for her.
One thing I cannot get to grips with is the fact a simply cannot give
her the excitement [...]
Dear Andrew,
My husband had a 6 month affair which ended April last year. We made the decision to stay together and try to work things out. We have read many books and this has really helped. When he ended it, he was heartbroken, it was very difficult to stay with someone who was obviously in [...]
My wife and I got married in 2005 and had dated each other for three years previously, lately we have been unhappy and mention divorce when arguing. On December 9th I discovered my wife was having an emotional affair with an old friend/boyfriend who lived across the country. I confronted her and told her to [...]
Dear Andrew,
I wrote to you just before Christmas 2008, Q no 109, and thank you again for your really helpful response… My husband, then 47, had ‘fallen in love’ (at a distance) with a colleague who was almost oblivious to his feelings. He went on to buy a flat which we can barely afford [...]