Andrew G Marshall

Author & Marital Therapist

Ask Andrew - questions about "Adultery"

My wife admitted to an affair that occurred for about 2 years.  She would see him when she went home to visit her parents.  She has provided details and I feel that she is being honest.  However, she said that … Continue reading

My husband had an emotional affair that ended in a kiss 5 months ago.  Since I found out two weeks after that he begged me to forgive him and work on our marriage.  We have been doing that and finally … Continue reading

My wife (reluctant to use that term) of less than a year (relationship total of 5) recently revealed that she had an affair with another man. It lasted a few weeks, although they were in contact for months afterward (even … Continue reading

My husband just told me last week that he has been having an affair with a coworker for 18 months, and he loves her very much.  He said he still loves me, but more like a friend.  We have a … Continue reading

While I was grieving from the miscarriage that came three weeks before I conceived my baby (16 months) my husband started a relationship with someone else, and then another, and another; and three months later it was intuition that caused … Continue reading

I discovered my husbands affair 5 months ago, I was 7 months pregnant with our 2nd child at the time. The affair had been going on for 9 months when I discovered it. We have been together 11 years, married … Continue reading

I’ve read ‘I love you but I’m not in love with you’ and ‘How will I ever trust you again’. Both books helped me tremendously. A few years ago you helped me when my husband had a fling with a … Continue reading

I have read I love you but I’m not in love with you, and also some of the posts on your website, and found them really insightful. Therefore I would greatly appreciate your input on a couple of issues I … Continue reading

I have been married for 8 years and knew my husband for 4 years before we got married. We have two children. Our son is 5 years old and daughter is 2 years old. My husband is having an affair … Continue reading

My wife has been having an affair with her ex boyfriend since last 3 years without my knowledge even though we have been married for 12 years. I have caught their affair but they are not admitting its an affair. … Continue reading