Ask Andrew - questions about "Adultery"
Firstly thank you for the knowledge and understand portrayed in your book ‘How can I ever trust you again’ which I am now reading for the second time together with ILYB. We have been in a relationship for 20 year … Continue reading
What are your thoughts on using a polygraph for full disclosure? Andrew writes: If you’re thinking this question, it shows that you simply DON’T trust your partner. It might seem a quick solution to make her take a lie detector … Continue reading
Married 44 years. Age 65. Husband contacted girlfriend from Junior year in highschool on internet. Hadn’t seen her or contacted her in 47 years. Formed internet and phone relationship from work. After 8 months of contact, announced that he wanted … Continue reading
About 3 months ago I discovered that my husband of 16 years had an inappropriate friendship with a woman in our village. Then 6 weeks ago he confessed that he had slept with her once in a hotel near her … Continue reading
I have read “I love you but I’m not in love with you”. My husband’s affair came out when I was seven months pregnant with our fourth child after I discovered a number on his phone, called it and a … Continue reading
Four months ago, I discovered that my husband of 19 years had been having an affair for the past year. I was willing to ‘forgive’ and set about the business of rebuilding/recreating our marriage and on ‘discovery day’ this is … Continue reading
Thank you for “HCIETYA” and “Resolve Your Differences”. Both books have helped us in this agonizing reconciliation journey. However, I am having problems with regaining respect for my wayward husband. He has done everything since discovery to heal his betrayal. … Continue reading
Thank you for “HCIETYA” and “Resolve Your Differences”. Both books have helped us in this agonizing reconciliation journey. However, I am having problems with regaining respect for my wayward husband. He has done everything since discovery to heal his betrayal. … Continue reading
i have been married for 5 years and we have been a couple for 14 years. 3 years ago i had cancer and was unable to have sex and that situation kept on for two years. that time was very … Continue reading
My husband of 23 years has told me that he wants to leave. He finds me very boring and there is no connection between us. He says he felt like this for a long time (years) maybe always. It turns … Continue reading