Andrew G Marshall

Author & Marital Therapist

Ask Andrew - questions about "Build a Life Long Love Affair"

I came out of a 6 yr relationship with my heart broken (I was 33). I moved to a new city and within 5 months I got my self into a new relationship with someone I had briefly known when … Continue reading

At the end of October, I found out that my partner of 3 1/2 years was having an affair with his work colleague. I found out in the worst possible way, she emailed me on Facebook detailing what had been … Continue reading

Long term married couple, two children. Husband confessed an affair 3 years ago (he had finished it but was suffering withdrawal), which embarked us on a lengthy road of healing, recovery, examination, during which process of radical honesty he disclosed … Continue reading

Really want to get your insight, if you have the time to respond, I feel like I’m going through a living hell. Up until march this year I had been in a 4 year relationship, the past year or so … Continue reading

Hi! I’m from Italy and am reading your book “Single?No grazie” (The Single Trap). First of all, thanks for your work because I find it quite helpful in general, even if I won’t ever find “my” partner. My question is … Continue reading

Four months ago, I discovered that my husband of 19 years had been having an affair for the past year.  I was willing to ‘forgive’ and set about the business of rebuilding/recreating our marriage and on ‘discovery day’ this is … Continue reading

I have read How Can I Ever Trust You Again and found it very helpful in it’s layout and general advice, but it does not address my own situation in so many words. My partner and I have been together … Continue reading

i have read a few of your books now they do help me understand so than kyou. An issue has been troubling me for some time, i put all the blame on my ex for the problems when we were … Continue reading

I read and loved your book The Single Trap.  I thought, for the first time, here is a book that makes total sense and writes to the intelligent reader. However, I did feel something was slightly missing.  There are those … Continue reading

I first wrote to you in April 2007 (ask Andrew 85) and what a journey it has been since.  You were spot on, I needed to sit back and wait and think about our relationship and nurture what we had, … Continue reading