Andrew G Marshall

Author & Marital Therapist

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My husband of 17 years had an affair with a work colleague last year which got pretty sexual but did not get to the deed. He has always maintained that he loves me and wants our marriage, however the affair … Continue reading

I’ve been given ILYB about a month ago. My husband of 7 years simply said that there’s very little left in his heart from what it was, that he feels very deeply towards me, but this feeling is not “in … Continue reading

I have been married for 17 years.  My wife and I have had our share of ups and downs.  She told me that she doesn’t feel the “connection” to me any more.  She said I’m attractive, a good provider, a … Continue reading

I have been with my wife for 6 years (married for 1 and a half) and she recently had an affair with a work colleague that lasted 6 months. She confessed this to me and now we find ourselves in … Continue reading

I have been married for 17 years and have 2 young children. My husband and I had a wonderful marriage which I put down to the fact we are so different – I am positive, outgoing and fun – he … Continue reading

My husband and I are currently separated, following an affair that I had. I had been suffering with a mental illness which made me vulnerable, and my husband didn’t immediately leave me. He tried to stop the situation from going … Continue reading

I truly need some help. My partner and I have been together for 30 years. In a nutshell, I have in the past due to a previous bad relationship been very jealous and controlling . However and I am ashamed … Continue reading

I am a 35 year old male who is in a relationship with a 32 year old woman.  I was never married and I have one 5 year old daughter from a previous relationship.  She has been married and divorced … Continue reading

It’s almost 3 years since I discovered my husbands affair. To say I was devastated is an understatement. I was most upset at the deceit. If he wasn’t happy why didn’t he end things with me and then pursue his … Continue reading

I bought “I love you but….” after my husband gave me that exact speech in April last year. I found it very helpful, but my husband didn’t want to read it. We got together when he was 17, I was … Continue reading