Dear Andrew,
I have been feeling like ILYB for months and recently told me husband. My choice of word is “DISCONNECTED” from him, when I look at him I think who is this person? BUT I Also feel like this with my mother, I also avoid physical contact from both. I analyse everything [...]
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Dear Andrew,
My husband and I separated 6 months ago. When he left he told me ILYB… and also that he couldn’t love me the way i wanted him to love me, also that the spark had gone between us.
Since then we have seen each other about once a week. He has either [...]
Dear Andrew,
My husband and I have been married for 5 1/2 years and have two children aged 3 and 4.
I found out last October that he had been having an affair for the previous 8 months with a work colleague half his age. After a few weeks it ended and he talked [...]
Hi Andrew,
I have just bought this book for my wife of 10 yrs, together 16, 2 kids, 10 + 8.
Cutting to the chase last month my wife made this announcement which has had a devastating effect on me, and her. I was totally unaware of how she had been feeling for the last few years [...]
Hello Andrew,
l am intrigued by what l have been reading, and decided to grab some insight too. I was in a beautiful relationship for 8 years, in love completely with a boy/man 8 years my junior. It was so raw and natural between us, we both were on a high most of the time. We [...]
Dear Sir,
I read your article with interest in the Daily Mail today and tried so hard to find myself in there so that I could follow a route back to happiness. I am an older man who does what most do nowadays, I keep fit, eat well, have a nice tidy clean home, average income, [...]
Hello Andrew,
My 7-year relationship ended 14-months ago and our divorce is settled. We still live relatively close by & see each other on several occasions weekly when picking up & dropping our daughter.
My question is what we should do about the underlying feelings for each other which don’t seem to be lessening for either of [...]
Dear Andrew,
4 years ago my husband bought me this book. We had been to ‘Relate’ and both sat their stubbornly, defences up.I foolishly did not read ILYB for months, whereas he did. After 18 months of me telling him I didn’t love him he gave up and filed for divorce, whence of course I realised [...]
Dear Andrew,
I had an affair with a man and fell in love with him. I knew when I got married that I was not in love with my spouse. I get confused when I hear that I can “fall back in love” with my spouse because I never was in love with him. [...]
Dear Andrew
I’m not quite sure how to start this so I’ll just go for it. Me and my husband have been married for nearly 2 years, our relationship has some what been a roller-coaster from the very beginning, we met when he used to work for my mum i was 14 and he was 18. [...]