Andrew G Marshall

Author & Marital Therapist

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I am currently reading “ILYB…”, and fortunately I came across this book in a time when I feel quite hopeless about my current relationship.  It has given me a lot of strength and hope, but I feel it might be … Continue reading

I live in Spain and my husband is in The States after retired of pro basketball because of the economy situation. I was supossed to go back to The States for the wintertime since I cant work there, he is … Continue reading

I found your book mindblowing and straight to the point. However, I came across an ILYB situation – being myself the one who was told – and started working on it with my partner with positive results, but the circunstances … Continue reading

I cannot thank you enough for having written “I Love You But I’m Not IN Love With You.” Immensely straight-forward, the advice the book gave to me in such a dark time still has seen no equal (not one person … Continue reading

I have been gripped by your book Heal and Move On and wish I had read some of your others before leaving my husband of 28 years whilst in the state of what I now know as limerence.  The limerence … Continue reading

I’ve read ‘I Love You But I’m Not In Love With You’ and found it very helpful in understanding what has gone wrong with my relationship, poor communication and lack of arguments being the main problems.  I have been with … Continue reading

I am in the middle of your book I love you But I am not in Love with You.  I just finished the chapter about control and not arguing enough.  My wife and I had an argument in September that … Continue reading

My wife and I have been together for 6 years and been married for 2. We have two children aged 1 & 2, so obviously the last two years has been a little busy and to top that I’ve been … Continue reading

My husband and I have been in a long-distance relationship since August 2011. We have lived-long distance before but over the last few months our relationship has become increasingly strained and has now reached a crisis point. Since the end … Continue reading

I came across your book I love you but am not in Love with you in Waterstones the other day. My partner of 4 years said this to me 3 weeks ago. I was devastated but not surprised. This is … Continue reading