Ask Andrew - questions about "I love you but.."
I am in the middle of your book I love you But I am not in Love with You. I just finished the chapter about control and not arguing enough. My wife and I had an argument in September that … Continue reading
My wife and I have been together for 6 years and been married for 2. We have two children aged 1 & 2, so obviously the last two years has been a little busy and to top that I’ve been … Continue reading
My husband and I have been in a long-distance relationship since August 2011. We have lived-long distance before but over the last few months our relationship has become increasingly strained and has now reached a crisis point. Since the end … Continue reading
I came across your book I love you but am not in Love with you in Waterstones the other day. My partner of 4 years said this to me 3 weeks ago. I was devastated but not surprised. This is … Continue reading
I have been with my husband for 22 yrs, married for 17yrs. Things have been up and down in our marriage before but we have always worked them through. This time round Things have been more destructive (emotionally abusive) on … Continue reading
I read your book, “I love You But…” and I urged my husband to read it too. He never did. We went to therapy. It didn’t work. He has now left and says he wants a divorce. He says he … Continue reading
Last week my husband of 23 years left me and our 2 kids (18 and 7 yrs), we are both 44 and marry at 21yrs. 4 months ago he told me that he didn’t feel the same any more and … Continue reading
My wife told me that she wanted a trial separation and on Christmas Eve she will have been gone for 3 months. We have a 3 year old boy and before she left I did all the wrong things trying … Continue reading
My wife dropped the ILYB bomb about three months ago (on our 19th anniversary — 20 years together — as it happens). I’m 45, she’s just turned 40, we have one daughter aged 13. We’ve had a few rough years, … Continue reading
I’m actually not sure which book to read, but I watched the interviews you have posted in which you describe what each book relates to. I was especially struck by “How can I ever Trust you Again?” How shall I … Continue reading
