Andrew G Marshall

Author & Marital Therapist

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Thank you so much for your thoughtful books – I loved “I love you but I’m not in love with you”. It gave me good advice that got me started. Still I don’t know how to get rid of the … Continue reading

I truly need some help. My partner and I have been together for 30 years. In a nutshell, I have in the past due to a previous bad relationship been very jealous and controlling . However and I am ashamed … Continue reading

I have been married for 9 1/2 years. We’ve been together for 12. We met in college, both very young. I was his first girlfriend and he was the first boyfriend I had after my previous boyfriend was killed in … Continue reading

I have been reading ‘I love you but I’m not in love with you’. I am just starting ‘Step Seven – Learn to love yourself enough’. I must say that this book is amazing! I can see the parallels of … Continue reading

Having read the book ILYB, I have found it very insightful but I am struggling to get much co-operation from my partner. She is currently reading ILUB , and while she says there are sections of the book that she … Continue reading

Basically we have 2 kids (1 & 2) and married for 4 years. I’ve been treating her very bad for the past few years and was completely engulfed in work. In Nov, my wife told me ILYB and it was … Continue reading

I stumbled across your webpage when searching on Google yesterday. After reading a few posts I went out and purchased ILYB.  I have read quite a bit of it already which is highly unusual for me, I rarely read anything.   … Continue reading

My wife and I have recently separated after being together for almost nine years. She gave the line ‘I love you but I’m not in love with you’. Before separating I was desperately trying to convince her for us to … Continue reading

Hi, my husband told me ILYB in September. We have been together since we were 17, we are now 38 & have been married for 12 years, with 2 beautiful children 10 & 6. I always thought we had such … Continue reading

Please can you help me?  I have recently discovered ( a month ago) my husband had a 2 month affair with a work colleague.  To say I was devastated is putting it mildly.  However, I have decided to forgive him, … Continue reading