Andrew G Marshall

Author & Marital Therapist

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I met my husband 15 years ago. Both of us were married then. Fell in love, divorced from our previous relationship and decided to spend the rest of our life together. Everything was fine until his business went under in … Continue reading

I was married to a man for 27 years who had two lives. I was 47 at the time of the divorce I quickly tried to “fix” everything quickly for myself and my children.  I ran right into a relationship … Continue reading

I am having a rough time right now.  Feel like I’m having a mid-life crisis. I have been married to my second husband for approx. 5 years.  I was married to my first husband for 14. My first marriage was … Continue reading

My husband aged 60 left me 8 weeks ago after 38 years of marriage.  I am 61 and was made redundant in Sept 2011, my husband was made voluntarily redundant in March 2012. Last winter our relationship stagnated and we … Continue reading

My husband thinks it’s too late for our marriage to survive. He says he has a fond regard for me, but has probably been putting barriers up for 2 years & withdrawing from our relationship. He escapes with his mates … Continue reading

My wife and I have been together over 13 years and have just ‘celebrated’ our 9th wedding anniversary. My wife opened up a business in 2005, our 1st child was born in 2006 & second in 2009. She is strong … Continue reading

I was wondering if you could help me with something that has been playing on my mind recently… It recently transpired that my boyfriend of 15 months has been looking at girls on a dating website that he used to … Continue reading

I was wondering if you could help me with something that has been playing on my mind recently… It recently transpired that  boyfriend of 15 months has been looking at girls on a dating website that he used to use … Continue reading

I am just starting How Can I Ever Trust You Again. I have been with my fiance for 2.5 years. For the first 2 years we were long distance. We met on the Internet, Skyped, texted, took trips back and … Continue reading

I have been meaning to write to you for quite sometime about the “greatest” personal conflict I have faced in my life. I have been married with my wife for nearly 10 years and we have two adorable children (6.5 … Continue reading