Dear Andrew,
How do I know he’s the one?
I’m a 48 years old professional with two teenaged boys. I got divorced almost 3 yrs ago because of my ex’s alcoholism and depression which were affecting in a disturbing way both my kids and my own life. Now I have been dating a man 7 years my [...]
Ask Andrew - questions about "The Single Trap"
Dear Andrew!
I am a 34 years old girl who lives in Poland. I am a pretty, fit and optimistic person but somehow after my last relationship which lasted almost 9 years I can’t start a new one.
It seems that I attract the same type of men all the time. I am very sensitive and fall [...]
Dear Andrew
I would really appreciate your perspective on my situation. I met a man via the internet following a 2 month correspondence. We are both in our late 40s. He was the sole carer for his terminally ill mother when we first started to write to each other and to be honest, I really wasn’t [...]
Hello Andrew,
l am intrigued by what l have been reading, and decided to grab some insight too. I was in a beautiful relationship for 8 years, in love completely with a boy/man 8 years my junior. It was so raw and natural between us, we both were on a high most of the time. We [...]
Dear Sir,
I read your article with interest in the Daily Mail today and tried so hard to find myself in there so that I could follow a route back to happiness. I am an older man who does what most do nowadays, I keep fit, eat well, have a nice tidy clean home, average income, [...]
* Ever since I can remember I felt under emotional siege from my family.
* As a child I would rock and suck my index and second finger on my right hand as a form of comfort. I still regularly rock myself to sleep.
* I always felt like an outsider within my family. I [...]
Dear Andrew,
I am 33 years old and can’t seem ever to settle into a relationship. I perpetually have what a friend has called ‘intrigue’ - i.e. there are plenty of men around, showing interest; often these interests become more than that but are always short-lived (or if not short lived then casual/sexual over a long [...]
Dear Andrew,
I’ve read The Single Trap and found it helpful. However, I still seem to be a bit stuck after having broken up with my boyfriend 18 months ago.
I’m 33, he was 10 years older and with a child. He broke up unexpectedly before moving in together, disappeared and got into another long [...]
Dear Andrew,
I’m 26 years old, I never grew up knowing my father, I grew up with my mum my older brother, and her two ex husbands, I once opened my heart to the wrong person, who cheated on me, abused me, took me for granted, I have now been single for 4 years, I know [...]
Dear Andrew,
Just finished reading your book ‘The Single Trap’ great book but I must say I was disappointed that there wasn’t anything about when you lose a parent through death, to me it’s not the same as when your parents divorce. My own Dad died when I was only 12 it had a knock on [...]