Andrew G Marshall

Author & Marital Therapist

Ask Andrew - questions about "The Single Trap"

Dear Andrew I wondered whether you are able to help me. I’ve read ILYB, Single Trap and Building a Life Long Affair. I’m not sure what’s the best way to set out my circumstances but thinks it’s probably be best … Continue reading

Dear Andrew I’ve read a number of your books including ILYB and Single Trap. I hope that you are able to give me some words of wisdom!  About two months ago, I ended my 16 month relationship with a single … Continue reading

hello, I have read a few of your books now. My boyfriend broke up with me recently we work together in a large pub, I am bartender waitress and he is a duty manager. He was recently promoted to assistant … Continue reading

Hi Andrew, I tried reading your book ‘The Single Trap’ over Xmas as my friend I was staying with had bought it. I found it quite heavy reading, but was stumped by the second chapter which asks one to analyse … Continue reading

Hello Andrew, I have recently read the “Single Trap” and it is an accomplished, interesting text. However I have tried in my already hectic life-style to make more room for acts like ‘riding the flow’ and I am struggling to … Continue reading

Dear Andrew, In your book “The Single Trap” (2009), you wrote that the first step in looking for love is to work on our self. But, in recent studies (see for example the book: Strangers to Ourselves – Discovering the … Continue reading

Hi Andrew, Having read the single trap I was struck by the section of the book which mentions the importance of finding a balance between the ‘animus’ (masculine qualities such as discipline, strength and rationality) and ‘anima’ (feminine qualities such … Continue reading

Dear Andrew I’ve read your book The Single Trap and found it very helpful in figuring out the type of man I went usually went for. I haven’t been in a relationship for almost 5 years and have met someone … Continue reading

Dear Andrew I am enjoying The Single Trap and, as a therapist myself, appreciate this approach, different from other dating books mostly. Although I agree in principle (and would be a relief) about dating as such often not working and … Continue reading

Dear Andrew, My name is Charlotte and I hope you won’t mind me writing to you for help. I was interested to read your website, in particular the letter from the lady who lost her father. I was 7 when … Continue reading