Andrew G Marshall

Author & Marital Therapist

Ask Andrew - questions about "The Single Trap"

Dear Andrew, Just finished reading your book ‘The Single Trap’ great book but I must say I was disappointed that there wasn’t anything about when you lose a parent through death, to me it’s not the same as when your … Continue reading

Hi Andrew, I’m 38 and single and cut out your Guardian article. I’ve been single for 10+ years. Dates and so on; nothing serious. My life is totally different to what I ever imagined – in some very positive ways. … Continue reading

I am a 36-year-old woman who has never had a serious relationship. The longest I’ve ever gone out with a man is two weeks. Many people consider me attractive and I’ve been told by acquaintances and strangers that I am … Continue reading

Dear Andrew, I am rereading your book ‘The Single Trap’ and I find it just such an eye opener…so thank you for that. I am divorced (married for 13 years, was mainly good) after separating 6 years ago, I’m 43, … Continue reading

Dear Andrew, I ordered and read your book The Single Trap and found it sound and wise. I am a professional woman, turning 48 soon, and a mother of two teenager sons. I got divorced 2,5 years ago, mainly because … Continue reading

Dear Andrew, I’ve recently lost my ‘love’ for my boyfriend and it’s been extremely upsetting to me. I miss those feelings so much, and it’s been so hard on him because he knows I’m in a different place emotionally. We … Continue reading

Hi Andrew, I read your article in the Guardian on ‘The Single Trap’ and thought it was really interesting. I was just wondering whether you have any advice for me. I’m 25, live in London and have a good set … Continue reading

Dear Andrew, Am working my way through The Single Trap – thank-you for actually “getting” the singles thing, treating us gently and not as lesser beings! For the first time I’m seeing my situation in a context which makes sense … Continue reading

Hi Andrew, i’m an 38 old italian female, i live in italy and speak a little english. i’m reading your book “the single Trap”, but i can’t go on with the seventh chapter cause pratically my last relationship has broken … Continue reading

Dear Andrew, On the Internet (eBooks and websites) there are vast information for men on how to get a woman. On getting a woman they make a global distinction between two different types of men: a “nice guy” and an … Continue reading