Andrew G. Marshall is a marital therapist with twenty years’ experience.

He works for RELATE the UK’s leading couple-counselling charity, and writes on relationships for the Times, Mail on Sunday, Observer and Sunday Express.

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A tip from Jennifer for investing time together: ‘We only have one TV in the house and so if we both want to watch it, we get to watch together (which means I watch more car shows than I would like and he watches more reality TV than he would chose) but we have lots to talk about.’

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